Do you think that your relationship is in need of a kick start? When things are not as exciting in the bedroom as you would like them to be, maybe you should consider investing in sex toys. The good news is that sex toys have come a long way in recent years. You can buy many exciting toys both in stores and online. However, how do you introduce sex toys into a relationship?
1. Is Surprising Your Partner A Good Idea?
Surprising your partner is not a bad idea, but it does not always work. If you are thinking about buying a sex toy without your partner’s knowledge, it is best to think about if you are both going to enjoy the experience. Not all men and women like to play with sex toys. Perhaps it is best to try to have a little chat about before you go ahead.
If you do feel that surprising your partner is a good idea, don’t buy any more “unusual” sex toys. It is best to start with a vibrator or a dildo. When you know that your partner enjoys the new toy, you can always expand the range.
2. Buying Sex Toys For A Birthday
When you know that your partner enjoys playing with sex toys, there is no reason why you should not buy them for his or her birthday. One word of warning when buying a sex toy as a birthday present.
You may not want to make it the main present. It is best to buy one nice present and then use the sex toy gift as a surprise present. That way, you can both have a bit of a giggle. A good idea is to place the new sex toy under a pillow and act surprise when your partner finds it. How did it get there? It should make for an exciting night together.
3. Checking Out Sex Toys Together
If you both realize that your sex life could do with a bit of a spark, you should try shopping for sex toys together.
Thanks to technology, there is an endless number of exciting sex toys available. You can even buy remote control sex toys!
Make an exception and for once take your mobile device to bed with you. It will give you the chance to check things out together. Who knows – it may even be an exciting way to spend an evening in bed?
Alternatively, you can visit a sex shop together. You may feel a bit awkward at first, but don’t worry. Lots of couples visit sex stores. There is no need to feel embarrassed.
Remember to play safe. It is best not to share your sex toys with other couples or friends. Clean them after use to make you don’t pick up any infections or introduce any harmful compounds to your play time together.
Sex toys are great. Many couples like to play with them. Why not build up your own collection and how fun doing it. You never know what you will discover about each other.